CoachNet Campfire

If there is one thing, particularly in difficult times, that leaders tell me a coach provides…it is perspective.  To help a leader see a situation, problem, opportunity or issue from another angle often times helps create a breakthrough, find a solution, discover a missing piece or sometimes, in those difficult times to find courage itself.

Many times the simple task of asking reflective questions, listening and providing feedback is all a leader needs from a coach. This requires discipline to be done effectively. Other times it may take helping a leader see a situation in light of other dynamics going on in that leader’s life or ministry. This requires relentless attention to detail for greater awareness. And in other times it may simply be reminding a leader of their core values, short-term mission and long-term strategy. This requires intentional effort to remain focused on a leader’s vision.  Together these three work in harmony to help a leader find, maintain and clarify perspective.

It’s easy for a leader to lose perspective when faced with difficulties, hardships and crisis. Far too often these difficult times end up determining a leaders course for them rather than confirming the direction they are currently headed and great things are left undone, great plans left dormant and great visions die.

My godfather flew bomber planes in WWII. I have a quote of his along with a framed picture of him, his crew and their B-17 Flying Fortress above my desk. Whether the quote is original to him or not, I simply do not know, but I often heard him say this; “When you are taking flak, you are probably over the target.”  Wise words from a combat veteran. Even wiser counsel for any leader.  When hardship, trouble, resistance and set-backs beset someone you are coaching remember those words.

How are you helping those you are coaching gain or maintain perspective during their difficult times?